Many empaths feel that empathy is a curse they can’t escape from. Sometimes when I am attracting a lot of peoples negative emotions and pain I start feeling the same way. I am not going to make you think that just because I have pretty good control over my empath that I never suffer. Sure it happens. But usually when I sit down and think about it there is a reason for it.
This past weekend I just couldn’t seem to break the connections to my parents. Of course the first thing I thought is “Why suddenly am I having trouble?” Unfortunately when i am not feeling well because of the emotions and pain I feel from others my head is not clear either. Connections sometimes feel like they cloud my head and it is hard for me to focus. But I get up the energy to do what I have to do for myself and also for others because if I am no good to myself I am no good the others or in helping to spread light. So I ask my spirit guides to help me, cut the cords (to others), drop/drain my energy down into the ground to be transmuted, ground, protect, and then bring in energy from Mother Earth and the source (central sun that I visualize is sitting behind the physical sun).
I feel that what comes next is where sometimes we make a mistake. At this point you think you are done and should be good to go. But what suddenly cause you to pick up those connections and start feeling everybody? There is one things that even I often forget about. Raising my vibrations.
Vibrations are like your frequency. The easiest way for me to explain it is that you want your vibrations/frequency to match up with what you want to come to you. Happiness, calmness, joy, good health, abundance. If you know anything about the Law of Attraction you understand what I am talking about. Raising your vibration means uplifting yourself into a positive place. Changing thoughts, emotions and our physical environment from the negative to the positive.watch film Fifty Shades Darker now
You want to be a vibration match to what you want to attract. If you picked up a connection to someone who is angry and frustrated and then you reacted with those emotions it brought your vibrations/frequency down. Basically you were brought down to the level where those angry and frustrated people are vibrating at. Of course you don’t want that because being down there you guess it, you will pick up more negative emotions and more connections to people who are at that frequency. For some of you the light bulb should have just come on with a big “Ahhhhhh haaaaaaa!” lol.free hosting no ads
So you get it right? You need to bring your vibrations back up so that you won’t keep empathically picking up those connections. There are many ways to do that and things you can easily do to keep those vibrations up.
- Check your associations – If you are people who vibrate at a low frequency it will be harder to kept your energy up and continue vibrating at a higher frequency. In a way, you are who you associate with. If some of them are family or friend who you don’t want to break your association with just consider taking a break from them periodically.
- Purify Yourself – Consider ways to remove or lessen the toxins in your body. A one day (or longer) juice fast, eating more fruits and vegetables, drinking plenty of water (an absolute must), etc.
- Exercise – Even if just a cleansing walk outside to be with yourself and nature. Mother nature is very healing. Or perhaps just a walk barefoot in your own yard or garden taking plenty of time to breath and touch and communicate with all the plants. This is very grounding as well.
- Smile & Laugh – Start smiling. It may not feel natural at first but you will notice it feels real good. Watch a funny movie or some comedy on television.
- Music – Your favorite upbeat music is a great way to raise your vibrations. Get up and dance. On Grey’s Anatomy I love the part where they “Dance it out!” They are raising their vibrations and getting out of the funk of the day. Yes…it really does work! Don’t worry if you look silly…I am sure I do when I do it.
- Hug a child – Ahhhhh the energy of a child is so nice. Now don’t get arrested by freaking out your neighbors by going after their kids and demanding a hug. Nothing will squelch your vibrations more than sitting up in a jail cell trying to explain that you are not the neighborhood pedophile. lol. Better yet if you have kids get down on the floor and play with them. Even though your idea of a good time may not be Leggo’s it will do wonders for your vibrations and getting your mind off of adult things.
- Journal – I write in my journal at least every other day and of course I write here as well. It does wonders for me. I get things off my chest and do some wonderful self exploration. Sometimes you will find that messages just flow out from your higher self.
- Meditate – if you can at least get into the habit of meditating every day if only for 10-15 minutes. Nothing fancy is needed. I just sit on my sofa with my feet on the floor, close my eyes, clear my mind and as thoughts enter I just push them away. Don’t worry if at first you can’t clear your mind. Before you know it you will be able to do this easily and you will start looking forward to that time.
- Prayer – Did you know that prayer raises your vibrations. Well any spiritual activity raises your vibrations. You can say the rosary or just a simple prayer you make up. Not all people are on a spiritual journey so also consider saying mantras. The simple “Om” or “Om Gum Ganapatayei Namaha” which translates into “Hail the remover of Obstacles, symbolized by Ganesh.” I will post some mantra’s along with how to pronounce them and their meaning.
- Use Creativity – Do some arts and crafts, practice an instrument, work on your garden, etc. I am sure you can think of some creative things you like to do even if it is just working on a puzzle. I am not really sure if playing online computer games work but I don’t see why not.
By the way, raising your vibration also helps to develop your psychic abilities.
hello there. im tryin to get some answers. i have been in contract with so many psyhic people that just come up to me and read me. the last psyhic man came up to me and just started reading me. everything he was telling me was the truth. and he told me to reach into my spiritual side. i have been told tht i have the ability to read and that i have read people before and had no idea. this story can go on and on but what i want to know is how can i reach to my spiritual? if u have answer you can reach me at my email. tru2myself4u29@yahoo.com cant wait to hear from u. thanks and god bless
On picking up vibrations or expanding your own vibrations. Lately, I've been having unusual circumstances….people are easily able to pick up my vibrations (read my mind) and I feel embarrassed. A lot of my thoughts are sexual.
How do i control these thoughts? It seems like I am transmitting sexual thoughts all day.
I am not ashamed of being sexual, I just don't feel like sharing it with everyone I come in contact with.
Help please.
There's a couple of things you could do. The one I would recommend would be to learn basic protection which is just visual. No you don't want people reading you because many people think it;s no big deal to read someone but I say it is a big deal. When someone reads me they connect to me and when they connect to me it has an affect on me as though my abilities are being slightly blocked and hindered from their connection. Visualize yourself surrounded by a bubble that is solid and not see through. Try using a bubble that is blue. As you are visualizing it surrounding you think of the intention you want…for example that no one will be able to get through your protection to read you.
Remember that thoughts are power. If you are thinking it then technically it can be read. So if you are not protected at certain times then I would recommend controlling what you think and purposely force yourself to think of something else or visualize something in your mind will also do the trick cause then the person would only pick up that visual. When I do it I use the star of david being drawn over and over again and visualize that it is being drawn inside my head.
The other option is to research crystals to use. And also you can always ask for a gate keeper guide and then ask the gate keeper to block anyone from being able to read you and block all connection from being able to be established.
Hope this helps…experiment a little and see what works best for you.
I thank you very much for your assistance.
I will definetely try the suggestions you provided.
What type od crystal would you try first?
Also, how do I connect with a Gate Keeper to get some helpo.
Thanks again
Thank you very much for your guidance. I have a some follow up questions. On the crytals, what type do you suggest that I start with.
Also, how do I contact a Gate keeper if I am not able to help myself?
Again, your guidance is very much appreciated it.
Your welcome. To have a gate keeper it's simple…you just ask for one. You can either ask out loud or quietly to yourself. A gate keeper is actually a type of guide. Guides are of different types and help you with different things. For example, if your a musician you would most likely also have a guide that helps you with your creativity. Each guide generally comes to you for a specific purpose – creative abilities, healing issues, spiritual development, etc. Gate keepers have one duty and that is protection.
Just simple ask and know that you will absolutely be heard. After stating that you need and want a gate keeper then simply state that you want to be protected from anyone being able to read or connect to you and to break any established connections.
Even though you may not know your guides names you can still communicate with them and ask for help. It really is as simple as just asking. They can not help you until you ask…that is the key thing to remember. Early on I use to forget that all the time and people would have to remind me.
As far as crystals I pretty much stick to snowflack obsidian and obsidian aka apache tears. Just remember that your intention is what is most important. So in using the crystals think of what your intention is as you hold the crystal.